Imposter Syndrome & Haven Recap (2017)

I’m sitting here, the cursor blinking on my monitor and my cold brew beading with condensation next to me. How can I put into one blog post all I felt and learned from the conference I attended over the weekend? Three days later and I’m still sleep deprived, ideas whirling around my head at a dizzying speed and I’m still thinking of the many laughs from this weekend.

Today we’re talking about Imposter Syndrome & Haven recap.

I shared a few photos on social media and Insta Stories, I will share a few more here.

For some reason, I’m having a hard time putting everything into words.

Perhaps it’s because I stayed up way too late. I’m a morning person and I roomed with my good friend Rachel (Shades of Blue Interiors) and she’s a night owl. We taught an advanced painting class last year together. I only get to see my friends once a year so it always seems reasonable at the time to stay up, cuz you know I won’t see them again for another year.

This year I had the honor of being a Haven Mentor.

Haven Recap 2017 and Imposter Syndrome

A mentor is someone who guides people on their way. As I walked into the cocktail reception for our first meeting, I found out my name had already been called and I’d missed the group photo with the Haven Mentors.

Sigh

The one thing about me is I hate being late. Being late is the worst and I was late for my very first meeting with my mentees. They seemed okay about it. I had a carefully crafted speech and I painted them a watercolor oyster shell with the inscription. The World is Your Oyster.

I tried to explain to them over the sound of chatter and music that anything is possible with a blog. Your dreams can take wing. Ideas can become a reality.

I still don’t consider myself an artist but sharing my watercolors is something I’m working on.

One thing I learned at the conference is everyone has Imposter Syndrome. We all feel like we aren’t expert enough to (fill in the blank) ____________. I’m sure even you at home feel this way about things in your own life. You want to know what? It’s okay if you have Imposter Syndrome too because everyone, me included, does too!

Every year I go, I learn more (I have over 30 pages of notes).

Here are a few more things I learned at Haven Conference 2017

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The importance of Face to Face meetings. Rachel Kate was the keynote speaker. You may know her from HGTV Design Star. She was really inspiring and shared so much about her own story. Many of the opportunities were from face to face meetings. She also admitted that she’d love to learn more about social media. I thought it was so refreshing to hear someone with such an amazing career share they still want to learn.

Continue to learn new things. We only grow by trying new things and failing and trying again.

Read. Read. Read. I chatted, when I first got there, to my friend Jen Rizzo, who is opening a shop and makery. She gave me so many great book recommendations. I told her about Hunch which I just read on the way down, it’s really an amazing book. Jen also recommended Start with Why and Grit

At Haven Blog Conference
Rachel (Shades of Blue), Sarah (Our Vintage Farmhouse), Lucy (Craftberry Bush) & Me

SEO is important. I took an SEO class a few years ago (I think at my first blog conference and it made my head hurt). This class was taught by Sabrina over at Dinner, then Dessert. She is a food blogger and had such a fresh perspective. SEO stands for Search Engine Optimization, which really means how your site gets found via keywords and image searches. The more accessible your site, the more people can find you.

Ways to Grow Your Instagram Account. My favorite social media is Instagram. I love all the pretty pictures. Sarah Hollingshead (@OurVintageFarmhouse) taught this class. She has a huge insta following. She shared so much of her story, the first time she shared it, at the conference. She has amazing farmhouse style, but I had the chance to connect with her over dinner and drinks both nights after. She’s just so funny. She said Instagram is about telling a story. It’s about painting a picture of your life. I hope I do this anyway here in my coastal town, but she recommended not using many # and to reach out with brands via direct message. So if you’re on IG, please stop by and say hi!

Attending Haven Blog Conference 2017
KariAnne (Thistlewood Farms), Lucy (Craftberry Bush), Courtney (French Country Cottage), Jen (Balancing Beauty and Bedlam), Jen (Jennifer Rizzo)

Photoshop isn’t as scary as I thought. Well, I say that after watching two pros at Photoshop. My friends Rachel (mentioned above) and Layla (The Lettered Cottage) taught this class.I always get so confused when using Photoshop as so many layers pop up that I don’t mean to create. Rachel shared her tips for editing photos in Photoshop. I currently edit in Lightroom and it was like magic watching her lighten her rug with the spot healing brush tool. Layla is famous for Pic My Presto, you may remember she did our fireplace! Well, she taught us how to do this in her class, even how to manipulate items so they look like they’re in the room. Layla recommended taking the picture from straight on as it’s easier. She’s offering a class on this right now on her site. I’m gonna play with Photoshop now that I’ve had some tips from the pros.

 

Pinterest is a discovery tool. Remember when Pinterest was an amazing place to get lost in? Before all the long pins and algorithms? Well, if you’re trying to use Pinterest to grow your business or blog you need to know that Pinterest favors profiles that share the content of others more than their own. This class was taught by Alex Evjen of (AVE Styles). Her feed is gorgeous by the way!

A few of her recommendations –

don’t have more than 25-35 boards

It takes 30 days to appear in searches so you need to pin seasonal ahead of time, start pinning for October in August. Kind of like magazines shoot and plan ahead of time.

Vertical Images pin better

Use key search words in descriptions

Apply for Rich Pins if you’re a business (I have this already)

Group boards don’t work as well as they used to

Pin 10% your work and 90% others – don’t SPAM

Home Depot Booth at Haven Blog Conference
Home Depot Booth

Podcasts are growing fast! Did you know in 2008 only 8% of people were listening to podcasts? Now 24% of people are listening to them. It’s such a fast growing medium because of phones. Many people can listen to them using Autoplay in their cars or listen on their phones while doing work. I love to listen while I’m folding laundry, editing photos or working on furniture in the basement. Karen June Grant and Zandra Zuraw of the Style Matters Podcast taught this class. The crazy thing is they are local to me! Both are based in Massachusetts and I’m really enjoying catching up on their podcasts in the basement. They shared what is needed to record and broadcast a podcast and I was really surprised that the start up costs are very low. I’m not sure I’ll be starting my own but it is surely something to think about. Many bloggers have podcasts.

It’s okay to admit your not good at things. My friend KariAnne (Thistlewood Farms) was the closing speaker and boy was she inspiring. She was the first to admit she can’t do it all. She said she wasn’t good at graphics and it was okay. Focus on what you enjoy and what you’re good at.

I can’t wait to read KariAnne’s new book. KariAnne’s new book, So Close to Amazing, is filled with stories. KariAnne is the best story teller she had us in tears and laughing our heads off. When she had photos taken for her first blog post she forgot to put the skirt on her Christmas tree, only to realize when she was writing the post. I can’t wait to read this book cover to cover!

Haven Blog Conference 2017
Sarah (Our Vintage Farmhouse), Rachel (Shades of Blue), Jen Rizzo (Jennifer Rizzo), Lucy (Craftberry Bush) and Me

Catching up with friends and supporting each other is important. The blogging community is full of creative and sensitive souls, myself included. It’s hard to put yourself out there. Sometimes it’s scary. But in the end you’ll be so glad you did. I still remember my first Haven. I was so nervous. I shared this with my mentees. It was the first time I left Luke and the boys. I was taking big gulping breathes and then I saw KariAnne and she gave me a big hug and smile. That fear melted away.

Follow your dreams and think bigger. I LOVE my blog and I love you guys reading at home, but what else would I like to explore in addition to it? Are their product lines or brands I’d like to partner with to create something amazing? Yes! Yes, I think there are.

Here are my dreams right now, I’m going to just shout them out and maybe someone somewhere is listening:

I’d love to create a coastal color palette for furniture

I’d love to share my designs in watercolor to be put on notepads, wallpaper and cards (maybe more)

I’d love to write a book. Actually two books – one focusing on coastal style – DIYs / Entertaining and the other focusing on a memoir style featuring my life growing up in a restaurant (this is why I started my blog in the first place)

I’d love to design hardware for furniture

I’d love to design Coastal Furniture and Vintage Inspired Accessories for the Home

Atlanta Night View
Atlanta at Night, View from the Presidential Suite

This conference has me so inspired and next year it’s gonna be in Charleston, South Carolina. We’re thinking of making a family trip down there.

So if you have Imposter Syndrome.

Guess, what?!?

So do I!

So do so many bloggers you all know and love.

The World is Your Oyster by Danielle Driscoll

The world is your oyster.

I guess I better take my own advice!

You can read my recap from last year here.

 

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Denise
Denise
7 years ago

Such great information! Question? Do you finding bloggers in the 50-60 age range a time these conferences? Can you reccommend any? Many thanks!

Beth
Beth
7 years ago

Danielle that was amazing! So much information and help for us little ones out here with goals to be just like you and have a successful blog!! You are all such an inspiration and your piece today just pushed me to stop procrastinating and making the time to sit down and establish my firm goals, to start writing every night (even when Game of Thrones is on!!) and making my dream a reality:) I hope I can make it to Charleston next year!! Thanks so much for sharing and I can’t wait for the next post!!

Diane
Diane
7 years ago

Yes!!! to all your ideas especially designing coastal furniture & vintage inspired accessories. Love your oyster watercolor by the way. What lucky ladies to have received such a beautiful gift.

Lorie Underwood
Lorie Underwood
7 years ago

Love your oyster painting. It reminds me of a favorite quote from Anne Morrow Lindbergh’s book, ‘Gifts From the Sea’, … “I am very fond of the oyster shell. It is humble and awkward and ugly. It is slate-colored and unsymmetrical. Its form is not primarily beautiful but functional… But its tireless adaptability and tenacity draw my astonished admiration and sometimes even my tears.” Not to mention the beauty it creates. A lesson for us all. (Read this book if you have not!) Any chance you will be sharing the watercolor in your free printables?

Mary
7 years ago

Danielle thanks for all your words of wisdom. Now I need to go back and re-evaluate what I’ve learned. I hope to be able to go one day and meet all you wonderful ladies.

Donna France
Donna France
7 years ago

Loved this post, Danielle! I have “chicken syndrome”…afraid to start because I think things aren’t good enough yet. I need to nix the chicken and embrace the imposter, and just fake it till I make it! Thanks for the inspiration!

Barbara Ann Sandoval
Barbara Ann Sandoval
7 years ago
Reply to  Donna France

I like that, “chicken syndrome. ”
that’s me!! So i continue to read my favorite bloggers for inspiration.

Donna France
Donna France
7 years ago

Me too, Barbara Ann! We have to get our butts in gear!!

Calypso in the Country

Great recap and thoughts on imposter syndrome – which I also have! I went to Haven last year and will try to go next year – especially since it’s in Charleston!! Love your ideas and goals too!
Shelley

Lynne
7 years ago

Thank you so much for sharing this recap, Danielle! As a newer blogger, I appreciate you sharing all of this helpful information and your insights. I am hopeful that I will make it to Charleston next year! Best wishes to you on achieving your goals and aspirations.